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“ Raising someone up does not reduce your stature—in fact, it exalts you in ways you have to experience to believe. Greater Than Yourself shows how you can begin improving the world by giving of yourself. It’s a wonderful message wrapped in a highly entertaining, well written story.”

- Ken Blanchard, coauthor of The One Minute Manager® and Leading at a Higher Level

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09.27.09

GTY In Action: The Fulfillment Fund

I’ve just learned about an extraordinary organization in Los Angeles called The Fulfillment Fund, whose mission is “to mentor, counsel and guide disadvantaged high school students to achieve a college education.” Their focus is the LA area where the high school graduation rate is only around 50%. According to their website, the students in their program “defy this statistic by graduating from high school and going on to college. Most are the first generation in their family to reach this milestone.”

The organization receives a lot of philanthropic help from the entertainment industry, and is very well known, therefore, around Southern California.

Veronica Estrada, one of their many inspiring alumni, tells her story. It just may inspire you to become a mentor, too.

Here’s Veronica:

“My mentor Michelle Kelly and I were matched by the Fulfillment Fund when I was in high school. When we first met, I thought of her as this nice white woman from Minnesota. I would have described myself as super ghetto. Everything about us was different, even our language. She’d have to stop me to ask, ‘Wait, what does G mean?’ And I told her ‘G. You know, like gangster? Cool, G means cool.’ Michelle had friends who did triathlons. The only running my friends did was from the police, because I had friends who sold drugs and I thought that was normal. I figured, when I was done with high school, I would just drive a cab like my parents did to help the family. That’s as far as my goals went.

I grew up in South Central. Every day when my dad came home from work, he would have to give money to these guys who hung out in front of our apartment building. He had to pay them so he wouldn’t get hurt, and so they wouldn’t hurt us. There were always helicopters circling. Michelle took me to a different side of town where everything looked safe and green. She was actually able to make me think that I could go to college. She took me to the Fulfillment Fund’s Destination College events and she made me apply to go on their college trips. Being on a college campus was the first time I thought someone like me could actually go there.

Michelle helped me apply to twenty different colleges. She let me use her computer, because my family didn’t have one. I ended up at my first choice, Pepperdine. I didn’t really feel like I fit in at first. I talked differently. I wasn’t blond. I hadn’t even seen a surfboard up close before! My parents were cabbies. But Michelle taught me I didn’t have to be hindered by my past that my future was wide open. And she convinced me that I had as much of a right to college as anybody. She also helped me realize my passion and ability for finance. All of my hard work paid off when I landed a full-time job right out of college. I now work in the Private Banking division of one of the world’s top banks.

I went back to my neighborhood’s high school a few years ago to tutor. While I was there, the school was locked down because a student had stabbed a teacher and was threatening other students. Nothing has changed there. But I have changed. When I was right in the middle of it I couldn’t do much about it. I honestly thought that was just how people lived. But the Fulfillment Fund gave me hope that my life could be different, and that it WOULD be different. They taught me that I could survive and then come back and actually make some changes. I want to, and I WILL make things better for them. And I do think anything is possible, thanks to my mentor Michelle, and to the Fulfillment Fund.”

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09.09.09

Join the GTY Project on Linkedin

My new friend, Martin Pannier, has just formed a group on Linkedin called “The Greater Than Yourself (GTY) Project.”

In Mr. Pannier’s words, the group “aims to be a community for leaders who have chosen to follow the Greater Than Yourself (GTY) philosophy to be extreme leaders at work and beyond. We can make a huge difference by encouraging and helping people to take on GTY projects of their own and sharing the lessons learned in the process.”

Thank you, Martin, for thinking this up and making it happen. I’m excited to see the insights and experiences that emerge from this community.

If we’re already connected on Linkedin, you’ll likely get an invitation from me. (And if we’re not, here’s my profile).

Otherwise, come on over and check it out. All are welcome. Please join in.

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09.05.09

Join Us in Dubai?

This promises to be an incredible conference. So, if you’ve ever thought about visiting Dubai, or if you just happen to be in the neighborhood…

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09.04.09

(Yet Another) Extreme Leadership Educator

This inspiring email from Bob Brennan, Assistant Principle of King’s Fork Middle School in Suffolk, Virginia, stands as further evidence that the principles of Extreme Leadership are alive and well in our country’s (and the world’s) best teachers and education administrators. Leaders like Bob will–soon, I hope–change the world of our children’s classrooms for the better:

Greater Than Yourself is a concept that I’ve practiced for years. I’m hopeful that my fellow administrators are as excited as I am about the possibilities [of GTY]. We spend so much time trying to devise methods to improve our students’ test scores — I can’t help but think that truly investing in the success of our teachers will help them view their students as bundles of positive potential and not just conduits of testing data; if our children are encouraged to be greater, then morale, self-image, behavior, and test scores should improve! The thing I miss most about my time as a classroom teacher is the personal, positive impact I could make with my kids. After reading your book, I’m seeing now that I can still have a far-reaching impact on lives — I’ll just do it through the people that I invest in one at a time. I haven’t settled on my GTY project yet, but I have two 6th grade teachers I’m praying about. Thanks for writing and inspiring and reminding me what is so very good about teaching.”

And thank you, Bob, for being what is so very good about teaching.

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